How to cope up with failed love?

Now many people can cope up with failed / strained relationship. When i came to know about suicide of model Viveka Babajee I thought I must openup. I can understand how it pains with my personal experience. How I felt at that time was;

  • Was unable to accept the reality that the relationship is over. Kept thinking that some miracle would happen & the person would revert back.
  • Was always living on the virtual world with the golden memories spent with the person.
  • Wanted to be alone. Not even with close friends.
  • Felt there was no meaning in living.
  • All the better memories and better things on hand became valueless.
  • Thought of ending life also prevailed on the corner of the mind.
  • Brain stopped working.
  • Didn’t feel like going to office, work, sleep, eat etc.

To keep it short I became like a living dead body. All i ask such people is to hold the nerve. There is definitely good in every bad. But we have to live to see all the exciting new things.

After overcoming months of pain. I came across lot of good humans whom i’d have missed if I stayed with the person. I’m happy today that I got a lot of deserving things for the loss I had and sure to get more too.

These are the things I did to overcome the tough phase;

  • I travelled to places where I’ve never been with my ex;
  • Moved to a place which was totally NEW. The place didn’t give me any memories of the past.
  • Created an hobby in Blogging to express my thought. This was one medium which was really helpful.
  • Developed another hobby in photography & vagabond travel.
  • Joined a GYM.

Overall I kept myself engaged fully that I didn’t have time to think about her and over time we get beautiful things what were worth than the loss.

Last thing is we must not forget that the person who had left us has a lot to loose than us. Experience of over coming tough patch of life is a wonderful feel. We must be gifted to get to feel the fain in it. And i’m happy for what has happened to me.

For people who had broken relationships move ahead! experience! and document your experience for others.

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    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:32:46 +0000

    RT @JohnathanR1: I'm not afraid of heights, deep water, or love. I'm afraid of falling, drowning, and a broken heart.
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    RT @AyoNardoni: An elephant can die from a broken heart. Can you imagine? A love like that.
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    Falling in love is soo easy, but falling out of love is really hard...#broken
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    RT @JohnathanR1: I'm not afraid of heights, deep water, or love. I'm afraid of falling, drowning, and a broken heart.
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    I'm not afraid of heights, deep water, or love. I'm afraid of falling, drowning, and a broken heart.
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    “@WhatTheFFacts: It's possible to die because of a broken heart!” Love is a battlefield
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    “@WhatTheFFacts: It's possible to die because of a broken heart!” so love really is a disease ctfu
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    RT @Whiteboy_Fetish: I am a good person because I am willing to love with my whole heart after it has been broken into a million pieces and stepped on.
    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:31:14 +0000

    Love is strong yet delicate, it cant be broken. To truly love is to understand it, To be in love is to respect it.
    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:31:06 +0000

    RT @sammy_p_90: I love that my mother @bethybooboo40 I'd there for me when my heart is broken.. Ice cream, sad movies, and wallowing later..
    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:31:05 +0000

    RT @AnilGujaraTi: Only love can heal the hearts that are broken by love.
    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:30:29 +0000

    RT @Whiteboy_Fetish: I am a good person because I am willing to love with my whole heart after it has been broken into a million pieces and stepped on.
    Sat, 11 Feb 2012 17:30:04 +0000

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    3 Responses to “How to cope up with failed love?”

    • If u feel failed in some thing, If it is love or any thing.
      there is better option is awaiting for you in this world.

      “And i’m happy for what has happened to me.”

      This is the word have to be keep in mind, even if u dead.

      Nice post Mr.CEO.

    • Syed Jasid says:

      Not accepting ur last line…. Its not a broken relationship, i guess…. If its a true love den it will succeed… Incase if it didnt, den it will live inside ur soul and hers till ur life ends… so never say tht its a failed love bro…. Love cant Fail….

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